I’m female, a Mexican, a mom, a wife, an addict, and a chef! But not in that order. Necessarily.

The best way to connect with people for me is to feed them. Call them over, and feed them.

Take them food that you cooked while you thought about them. The essence of love.🥰 And when you cook, sit down together, and eat–everyone enjoying the same thing–its communal, and Divine.

I was single for a long time, but I always cooked for myself. It’s about the only consistently self-nurturing thing I’ve always done!

So keep cooking! Or start trying! Include someone if you can, but if not, do it for the most important person.💝